Christopher Reeve, an actor best known as Superman, showed real-life heroism during personal tragedy. But behind the scenes, he was more than just a superhero; he was a super dad to his three children, none of whom followed in his footsteps.
Christopher Reeve during Premiere Party for “Fellow Traveler” at America Restaurant in New York City, New York | Source: Getty Images
Christopher Reeve was born on September 25, 1952, to a writer/professor dad, Franklin D’Olier Reeve, and a journalist mom, Barbara Johnson. He spent his early years in New York, but his life changed significantly when he was just four. Following his parents’ divorce, his mom moved him and his brother across the Hudson River to New Jersey, where he spent his childhood.
Christopher Reeve during Presidential Premiere of “Superman” in Washington, D.C. on December 10, 1978 | Source: Getty Images
Actor Christopher Reeve on January 20, 1984, in the UK | Source: Getty Images
After college, he seamlessly transitioned into acting, leaving his mark on classics such as “Love of Life” and “Gray Lady Down.” However, it was his iconic portrayal of Superman in the 1978 blockbuster that cemented his place in movie history. Still, securing this role was no small feat.
Headshot of actor Christopher Reeve as Superman in a scene from the film, “Superman,” 1978 | Source: Getty Images
Armed with nothing but black shoe polish in his hair to mimic the superhero’s signature look and a makeshift concept costume that barely held together, Christopher gave it his best. After all, this wasn’t just an audition; it was the moment Superman was reborn.
Superman, played by American actor Christopher Reeve holds a green crystal at the Fortress of Solitude in a promotional still from “Superman”1978 | Source: Getty Images
Beneath the unforgiving glare of audition room lights, and with the weight of the moment pressing upon him, he sweated through his audition, ultimately securing the role that would define his career.
ctor Christopher Reeve in 1986 | Source: Getty Images
Even as he embarked on being Superman, Christopher’s personal life flourished. This period marked the beginning of a journey where Christopher not only conquered the entertainment industry as a superhero, but also embraced the joys and challenges of his off-screen roles with equal passion and commitment.
Christopher Reeve in New York, circa 1970 | Source: Getty Images
While filming the first two “Superman” films, he met modeling executive Gae Exton and welcomed his first two kids, Matthew Reeve and Alexandra Reeve Givens. He later married Dana Reeve in 1992, and the pair welcomed their son, William “Will” Reeve, the same year.
Christopher Reeve and Gae Exton attend the 55th Annual Academy Awards Governer’s Ball circa 1983 in Los Angeles, California | Source: Getty Images
Unfortunately, Christopher suffered a strange accident that changed the course of his life forever. Although initially allergic to horses and having to load up on antihistamines when shooting the riding scenes from “Anna Karenina” in 1984, horses later became a big part of the actor’s life. And it was an incident from his horse-riding adventures that left him struggling with severe injuries.
Christopher Reeve attends the 55th Academy Awards circa 1983 in Los Angeles, California | Source: Getty Images
In May 1995, three years after he welcomed his youngest son, he was participating in an equestrian competition when the horse threw him off, and he landed on his head. Despite wearing a helmet and protective vest, the injury was devastating and left his life hanging in the balance.
Christopher Reeve during Prelude Party for the Christopher Reeve Paralysis Foundation’s “A Magical Evening Gala” at Private Residence in New York City, New York | Source: Getty Images
Life post-accident was difficult for the actor because it left him paralyzed from the neck down and affected every functionality of his body, from his speech and his skin to his bowels and bladder. A close friend recalled:
“He was so terrified that he could die at any moment.”
Christopher Reeve and Dana Reeve during 13th Annual “A Magical Evening” Gala Hosted by The Christopher Reeve Paralysis Foundation – Inside at Marriot Marquis in New York City, New York | Source: Getty Images
It was a harrowing journey for him, one that shook the very fabric of his being. Retelling his experience to ABC News’ Barbra Walters shortly after the accident, Christopher confessed to wanting to “pull the plug” before adding:
“You look out the window, and you can’t believe where you are. And the thought that keeps going through your mind is, ‘This can’t be my life. There’s been a mistake.'”
Dana Reeve and Christopher Reeve during SuperSkate 2001 Celebrity Hockey Game at Madison Square Garden in New York City | Source: Getty Images
Still, his will to live prevailed. He relied heavily on rehabilitation, which, in addition to becoming a magic place for him, brought to light how ill-fitted the world was for people with disabilities. Thus began his journey of advocacy, a path he navigated with grace and poise until his final moments.
Dana Reeve and Christopher Reeve during 2003 Tony Awards at Radio City Music Hall in New York City, New York | Source: Getty Images
With support from his loved ones, Christopher became a leading advocate for spinal cord injury research in America. He raised money, wrote books, testified before Congress, and gave motivational speeches all over the country.
Christopher Reeve and wife Dana during 13th Annual “A Magical Evening” Gala Hosted by The Christopher Reeve Paralysis Foundation at Marriot Marquis in New York City, New York | Source: Getty Images
The aftermath did not only change his outlook on life; it transformed how he connected with his children. His approach to parenting changed, and he began prioritizing activities that would engage him and his kids on a more personal level.
Christopher Reeve & Dana Reeve during Project A.L.S. 5th Annual New York City Gala “Tomorrow is Tonight” Benefit at Roseland in New York City, New York | Source: Getty Images
Tragically, nine years following his life-altering accident, Christopher succumbed to an infection in 2004, a loss that resonated far beyond his immediate circle, touching hearts across the globe.
Christopher Reeve and Dana Reeve during AAFA American Image Awards To Benefit the Christopher Reeve Paralysis Foundation at Grand Hyatt Hotel in New York City, New York | Source: Getty Images
In a poignant turn of fate, his wife passed away just a year later from lung cancer. The passing of both parents cast a dark shadow over their children’s lives, leaving an indelible void. Reflecting on the enormity of this loss, their son Will notably remarked:
“That was the moment, I’ve been alone ever since then.”
Matthew Reeve, Alexandra Reeve Givens and William Reeve attend the “Super/Man: The Christopher Reeve Story” Premiere during the 2024 Sundance Film Festival at The Ray Theatre on January 21, 2024 in Park City, Utah | Source: Getty Images
Amidst the wake of such immense loss, the journeys of Christopher’s children have emerged as proof of his unwavering legacy. Each child, in their own right, has navigated the immense void left by their parents with grace and fortitude, carrying forward the values and lessons imparted by their remarkable father. We take a closer glimpse into the lives of his children and who they have become following their tragic loss.
Matthew Reeve: Directing with Purpose, Honoring a Superhero Legacy
Christopher Reeve with his son Matthew Reeve and Gae Exton circa 1983 in New York City | Source: Getty Images
Born to Christopher and his then-girlfriend, Exton, on December 20, 1979, Matthew introduced Christopher to fatherhood. At the time of Matthew’s birth, his father was filming “Somewhere In Time” with Jane Seymour.
Christopher Reeve with son Matthew Reeve and Gae Exton circa 1983 in New York City | Source: Getty Images
Despite growing up with Superman as a dad, Matthew admitted that he and his siblings had a “totally normal childhood.” He did not think of his famous parents as that, but rather just his parents. He diverged:
“They were just my parents. They were the people who told me to turn off the TV, eat my broccoli, [and] go to bed.”
Matthew Reeve attends the Reeve Rocks benefit concert at Tenjune on July 21, 2011 in New York City | Source: Getty Images
The only thing that seemed different from other children’s childhood was that he would see his father on magazine covers whenever they went to the grocery store. Still, their impact on his life was tremendous, and he looked up to them as role models.
Matthew Reeve attends Town & Country Philanthropy Summit at New York Historical Society on May 10, 2016 in New York City | Source: Getty Images
He recalled how his dad would sail a boat, fly a plane, and play the piano effortlessly. These, among his other accomplishments as a beloved actor, set the bar so high that no one has been able to fill it. It has also become a source of pride, not only for Matthew but for their family in its entirety.
Matthew Reeve attends the “Super/Man: The Christopher Reeve Story” Premiere during the 2024 Sundance Film Festival at The Ray Theatre on January 21, 2024 in Park City, Utah | Source: Getty Images
Matthew graduated from Brown University in 2002 and embarked on a path that, while distinct from his father’s cinematic journey, is a reflection of the actor’s influence on his life. Embracing the realms of writing, directing, and producing, Matthew has carved out his own niche in the film industry, with his creative footprint visible in works like “Providence,” “The Land That Never Was,” and various episodes of “Agent Hamilton.”
Away from his producing duties, Matthew also pays homage to his dad by serving on the board of directors for the Christopher & Dana Reeve Foundation, a charitable organization founded by his parents in favor of finding a cure for spinal cord injuries. And while not much is known about his personal life, he is rumored to live in Stockholm with his family, a daughter and a son.
Alexandra Reeve Givens: Championing Change in the Digital Age
Alexandra, the second of the Reeve brood, was born in December, 1983, in London. Much like her older brother, Matthew, Alexandra chose not to tread in their father’s cinematic footsteps. Instead, she ventured even further afield, carving out her own distinctive path in law.
Alexandra Reeve Givens attends the Christopher & Dana Reeve Foundation 19th Annual “A Magical Evening” Gala at the Marriott Marquis on November 9, 2009 in New York City. | Source: Getty Images
Following her graduation from Yale University and Columbia University School of Law, she assumed the role of the inaugural Executive Director at Georgetown University’s Institute for Technology Law & Policy. In this position, she oversaw the institute’s public events, research initiatives, and strategic growth.
Alexandra Reeve-Givens attends Christopher & Dana Reeve Foundation Host 18th Annual A Magical Evening Gala – Red Carpet at Marriott Marquis on November 10, 2008 in New York City | Source: Getty Images
Presently, she holds the position of CEO at the Center for Democracy & Technology, a nonprofit dedicated to safeguarding civil rights and liberties online.
Alexandra Reeve Givens attends The Christopher And Dana Reeve Foundation’s “A Magical Evening” Gala at Cipriani Wall Street on November 19, 2015 in New York City. | Source: Getty Images
Leading a global team of legal and technical experts, she plays a crucial role in shaping policies, governance, and the design of technology. Additionally, she serves as the Vice Chair for the Christopher & Dana Reeve Foundation.
“Dad did not get to see all of that payoff but we get to see it now, and we get to see all of the amazing community carrying on his legacy and that makes us incredibly proud[sic].”
Beyond her achievements in the public sphere, she finds profound fulfillment in the role closest to her heart: being a mom. In line with keeping her father’s legacy alive, she named her son, Christopher Russell Reeves Givens, after him.
Will Reeve: Blending Broadcasting Brilliance with a Legacy of Hope
Will Reeve, the youngest child of Christopher, has charted a unique course that both honors and extends his father’s legacy. Unlike his siblings, Will has ventured into broadcasting and philanthropy, a blend of his passions and the values instilled in him by his parents.
Donna Reeve, her husband Christopher Reeve and their son Will attend “SuperSkate 2001” on January 7, 2001 at Madison Square Garden in New York City | Source: Getty Images
As a correspondent for a major news network, Will has demonstrated a keen ability to connect with people, share compelling stories, and bring attention to critical issues.
Will Reeve at the Variety Sundance Studio, Presented by Audible on January 20, 2024 in Park City, Utah | Source: Getty Images
In addition to his career in media, Will is deeply committed to continuing his father’s work in spinal cord injury research and advocacy. He is a committed supporter of the Christopher & Dana Reeve Foundation, focusing his energy on advancing research and enhancing the quality of life for those living with spinal cord injuries.
Through this work, Will embodies the optimism that his father championed, an undeniable proof that Christopher’s legacy is not only preserved in the memories of his iconic roles but also in the impactful actions of his son.
Will Reeve on Good Morning America on Tuesday, March 21, 2023 on ABC | Source: Getty Images
Over the years, Will has come to terms with his loss and discovered that the greatest gift and honor he could bestow upon his dad is keeping him in his heart and following it wherever it leads him.
Will Reeve arrives at The Christopher & Dana Reeve Foundation “Magical Evening” Gala on November 15, 2018 in New York City. | Source: Getty Images
He once confessed, “I’m 29 now and have finally started to understand what honoring my dad actually means. I thought it meant following the roads he would want me to go down, or to live my life as his proxy, making up for lost time according to his thwarted dreams. Turns out, our parents want us to find out who we are and go be that. That is the ultimate form of honor.”
Will Reeve attends the 2011 Christopher & Dana Reeve Foundation’s A Magical Evening benefit at Cipriani, Wall Street on November 30, 2011 in New York City | Source: Getty Images
Will stands out as the sole offspring of Christopher, who has embraced a life in the public eye. Unique in his circumstances, he is also the only one among his siblings to have lost both parents, navigating the world as a full orphan.
Will Reeve (R) and Amanda Dubin arrive at the 2019 Christopher & Dana Reeve Foundation Gala at Cipriani South Street on November 14, 2019 in New York City | Source: Getty Images
Yet, amidst his journey, he is not leading his life in solace as he has found companionship and support, sharing his life with his girlfriend, Amanda Dubin.
In their own distinct ways, Christopher’s children have each woven a tapestry of honor and tribute to their father’s legacy. Whether through advocacy, technology policy, media, or philanthropy, they have not only carried forward the values Christopher stood for but also infused them with their passions and commitments.