Denzel Washington is one of those actors that need no introduction. His awards and record-breaking movies speak for themselves.
Unfortunately, the actorâs parents grew apart and divorced when he was 14 years old, and Washington and his siblings were left to be raised by their mother, Lennis.
However, out of the three children his parents had, Washington admitted that he was the one that gave his mother the hardest time.
After his parentsâ divorce, Washington rebelled and started getting involved with the wrong crowd. He confessed that one of his friends was dead, one served 28 years in jail, the other 20, and another spent 12 years inside.
When his mother realized her sonâs scary trajectory, she moved him from Oklahoma and sent him to a private school in upstate New York.
This is where Washington turned a new leaf in life, but things were not always smooth sailing. The actor revealed that he would still get into so much trouble that he would be sent home, but his mother sent him back until he got his act right.
He thrived in sports and was part of a band. This was when Washington discovered his love for arts and performance. But he does not believe he would have had those achievements without the support of his beloved mother.
Washington said he was what they called âthrowing rocks at the penitentiary,â but he never hit. The âMan on Fireâ star never forgets his motherâs words, âSon, you never know who is praying for you,â because it is a miracle to him that he did not end up behind bars like his friends.
When the actor is asked what advice he would give his 15-year-old self, he often laughs in disbelief and says, âlisten to your mother!â because, without her, he does not know if he would have the comfortable life he has currently.
A Special Mother and Son Bond
Washington lost his mother in 2021 when she was 97 years old. When he visited âThe Late Show with Stephen Colbert,â the host consoled the actor for his loss.
He appreciated that he and his siblings got to have that much time with their mother alive. While discussing a motherâs love, Colbert reminded Washington of one of his quotes âA mother is a sonâs, first love.â
The actor said he realized how his wife Pauletta is extremely soft regarding their eldest son John David Washington. âHe can do no wrong,â said Washington.
However, Washington could not finish speaking about a motherâs love without choking up. He even said he was surprised at his stream of tears because he did not cry at his motherâs funeral. But the actor reminded the audience to hug their loved ones while they still lived.
Washington credits his mother for teaching him the importance of family. He has been married to his wife Pauletta since 1983, and they have four children, John, Katia, Malcolm, and Olivia. The actor is extremely proud of his strong-willed wife. He said she is a Christian who has instilled prayers and the bible in all their children.
When asked what keeps a marriage strong, the actor said, âlots of prayers.â Pauletta is the rock of the Washington family and the reason behind their close-knit brood.
Washington said there was nothing better than rushing home after work to watch his sonâs games and spend time with his family. âFamily is life. Acting is not life to me. Itâs making a living,â said the actor.
The humility that Washington embraces is another part of him for which he credits his mother. He recalled early in his career when he was just rising to fame.
âThe Equalizerâ star said he went home to show his popularity, and his mother put him right back into his place and reminded him again that he did not know whose prayers got him to where he was. Then told him to wash the windows.
Even when he was older and successful, Lennis still told Washington to dig deeper into himself to lead a good life, and thatâs when the actor decided to stop drinking.
Denzel Washington Saved a Manâs Life
Washington praises his mother for raising him to be a kind man and shows through his actions that he has a big heart. As the actor was driving in West Hollywood, he noticed a homeless man in the middle of a busy street.
Washington did not even think twice; he parked on the side of the road and risked his life to save another. Despite how difficult it was for him to maneuver through a busy street full of cars, the actor managed to get the man off the road safely.
But he did not stop there; Washington called the police and waited with the man. The police detained him without any reason, and the actor stayed with him and helped give the cops a statement.
Washington was by his side, comforting him throughout his questioning. He even gave the man a sandwich and a face mask to protect him from the coronavirus.